Dip pen clouds © Karen Thiessen 2014 |
Elastic ball print c © Karen Thiessen 2014 |
This has been an exciting but strange time. I've met all of my major commitments and this is the first time in many years where I have no volunteer obligations or deadlines. Two new series are in the works and the energy is flowing. One series is still in the research phase and I'm already making the second series. Exhibition opportunities are coming my way and I've had to discern whether they are worthwhile or whether they are distractions. For two of them, I've decided that they are the latter: they would take time and energy away from the flow that I'm experiencing on an almost daily basis in the studio. My ego likes the thrill of a whack of deadlines, but the new work asks me to step back and give them breathing room. Do you have difficulty saying no to opportunities?
Dear Karen,
ReplyDeleteI found myself saying yes to almost every opportunity. My friends father would say that we should 'take a cookie when the plate is passed, because you don't know when it's going to come around again'.
Now, I say "let me think about that" and mostly I find myself saying "no".
Saying no is powerful, empowering, freeing, liberty-giving, and necessary for an artist.
Saying no allows you to say yes to the right things for oneself.
I didn't begin to start to say no until 2012 and once I did, the immediate difference was measurable.
p.s. I like your intuitive mark-making.
cheers!
Christine
Hi Christine,
ReplyDeleteSaying no is difficult, but one can say yes to far too many things and burn out. A quote I heard a few years ago has stayed with me: "When you say yes to something, you say no to something else."
Thank you for this blog conversation!
Karen